Referral Nightmares

OK all you AP's out there... did you have referral nightmares prior to receiving a referral?! And I do mean that literally... last night I had my first "referral dream" although I think it was more of a nightmare since there were horrible things wrong with the children... I can't even write it down it was so bothersome (we're talking well beyond the "special needs" category). I woke up with the same feeling you have after those "you-forgot-to-study-for-the-test" dreams. It was the middle of the night, I was practically crying, and it took me about ten minutes to realize I hadn't *received* a referral yet. So, is this the norm - or just me?!